Heaven will be gained in this world, make the world a paradise, women can make the family happy.
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| Heaven will be gained in this world, make the world a paradise, women can make the family happy. |
How to get paradise on this earth
The soft dawn is blowing. Arun Alo peeked through the eastern sky. It was as if the whole world had gained a new life. The beautiful beauty of nature, the sweet chirping of birds in the trees is something that any person should like. But Khaleda is not feeling well today.
Khaleda is a young woman of twenty two years. It doesn't look too bad either. Even if the face is not that attractive, the beautiful structure of the body impresses any onlooker.
Khaleda got married to a young lady six years ago. For some years there was a lot of love between husband and wife. One could not imagine anything without the other. After two years, a boy was born in Khaleda's arms. The boy is very handsome and handsome. Khaleda consulted her beloved husband and named the boy Saiful Islam Shihab.
Khaleda's husband's name is Manjurul Islam Shibli. Everyone called her Shibli. Khaleda-Shibli relationship was very sweet till Shihab was two years old. Shibli is an established businessman. His big business is in the market near the house. Although he is busy all day with business work, he cannot live without seeing Khaleda two or three times a day.
When Shibli used to say to the employees, you should pay attention, I am coming from home, then they understood that Khaleda Bhabhi was pulling him towards home. Basically, many people already knew about their good relationship.
But today the situation is gradually changing since two years. As the days go by, the relationship cracks. Love and affection are deteriorating. And that's why Khaleda's mind is not good. In this happy relationship of husband and wife, how, why did it last forever, why or the husband does not love her as before; Khaleda is always drowning in these thoughts that love does not exchange from the bottom of the heart.
Shibli-Khaleda lives in a village near a beautiful forest. One day Khaleda heard that a dervish lived at the foot of a small hill in the Sundarbans area. This dervish is a very perfect person. He has no interest in worldly wealth and money. His entire time is spent between the worship of Allah and the service of creation. By serving creation he feels an absolute peace in his heart. Khaleda heard the praise of this dervish one by one.
Hearing the praise of the dervish in the mouth of the people, Khaleda developed an immense devotion to him. He thought to himself - Dervish finds peace in benefiting people. Currently, the tense situation I have with Shihab's father, the deterioration of the relationship - in such a situation, bringing an amulet from the dervish is not bad. He is an old man. By using the talisman given by him, peace, happiness and prosperity will return to our married life. Sweet life will come back.
Khaleda's heart was filled with happiness as she thought about it. The face is full of happiness. So without delay, he quickly appeared in the khanka of Dervish with the address. Dervish was busy with a task. Seeing a girl entering the khanqah, he motioned her to go behind the curtain. Then he asked in a very tender voice -
: Mom! Why did you come here for what purpose? Is there any mahram with?
: No, there is no Mahram. I came here alone with a special purpose.
: Now you go. Next bring a mahram male. Then I will listen to all your words.
: Lord! I am a helpless girl. You will not drive me away. Among the mahram men are my father and brother. They live in country houses. Our house is in Rangamati district. It is not possible to bring father or brother from so far.
: Don't you have a husband?
: Yes, there is.
: Come with him.
: That is also not possible.
: Why?
: What I want to tell you is about my husband. So will it be possible for me to say something about him in front of him? : Ok got it. Now tell me briefly what to say.
Hazrat! I have been married for six years today. I have a four year old son. Husband's name is Manjurul Islam Shibli. He is a renowned businessman. The owner of a lot of money. Our married life was very happy for about four years after marriage.
There was no lack of sincerity and love between anyone then. He loved me very much. I also loved and liked him from the bottom of my heart. But about two years ago, our love suddenly broke. He now comes from outside as before
2. Those with whom marriage is prohibited forever are called Mahram.
Don't want to give me love. Love does not exchange. Do not bind in the bond of love. If food is offered, he does not accept it with pleasure. Always want to avoid me. I stay away, don't come near him, this is his choice. But he could not have seen me for a few hours before. He used to eat food together with me.
Lord! My husband's mood is now irritable. Earlier, when he came home from the shop, Khaleda, Khaleda used to call and make the whole house drunk; And now come and lie alone and think about what? Asks but does not answer. In such a situation, only the idea is taking root in my heart that he is in love with some other girl.
So all the time there is a quarrel in the house. Lord! I have come to you with the intention that you will please give me a talisman by which my husband will love me as before, only the girl named Khaleda will always roam in his heart world. The dervish sahib listened to the girl with great concentration. Then he remained silent for a while and said-
Your husband is a young boy. And this condition occurs when a young person is mentally disturbed. I think your husband may not get it from you when he comes to you hoping for a bit of happiness after enduring various problems in the shop. Anyway, your task is too difficult for me to do. you can go now
Khaleda cried out at the dervish's words. He said in a voice wet with tears, Lord! I came to you from such a distance as a human being and you disappointed me and returned? Lord! Please be kind to me. Kindly show me a way by which peace and happiness will once again flow in our lives.
It will not be possible. Khaleda Kakuti begged to repeat the earlier words and said, I told you, the matter is very difficult. Did it for me. She repeatedly tried to explain to the dervish that she wanted her husband's former love at any cost.
Now the dervish said, well, that's fine. You come after three days. I will make an arrangement for you within three days. The dervish's words should not hold Khaleda's joy anymore. He went home with a happy heart. Then waited for the three days to end.
As the saying goes, waiting is better than death. The waiting time seems too long. Same thing happened with Khaleda. Three days seemed like three years to him. His mind was saying that if three days could be reduced to one day by adopting some scientific method, he would do it at any cost. Anyway, after three days, Khaleda again appeared at the dervish's court.
This time the dervish felt a little perplexed and depressed. He took a long breath and asked Khaleda to go behind the curtain as before.
: I decided to give you a amulet. Your talisman would have been made for sure in a few days, but…….
However, Darvesh Saheb deliberately became silent for a moment. Wanted to understand the state of the girl's interest.
: But what? Khaleda asked in a busy voice.
: I have collected all the items needed to make this amulet. But could not collect one thing. I don't think I can. The dervish spoke the words in a steady but firm voice.
: By any means I will procure this thing for you. You just say what is that thing?
: Just a moustache. But it is not a man's mustache, but a lion's mustache.
That too, not of a dead lion, but of a living lion. If you can bring me a living lion's whiskers, you will be done. : Lion's mustache! That's alive again!! How is it possible for me? Khaleda said with great surprise.
: If it is not possible, you will not get the amulet. Your Tajib will not be without this. If you need a talisman so badly, you need a live lion's mustache. And if you think that there is no need for amulets, then there is no need to painstakingly collect mustaches. Saying this, the dervish became distracted and got busy with his work.
All of Khaleda's hopes were crushed in a moment by these harsh words of the dervish. Extreme sadness appeared on the face. He didn't know what to do at the moment. Finally, on the eve of his return home, he said to the dervish again:
: But will not the amulet without the lion's mustache?
: No, it won't. I have only one thing. If you want a talisman, you need a mustache. Khaleda did not speak any more. He returned home in a bored mood. Then day and night he was occupied with only one thought - how, by what means to bring the mustache of a living lion.
After thinking for some time, an idea came to his mind. He thought, even if he goes in front of the lion, there is not even a chance of escaping with his life. But after winning her heart with care, feeding her likes, she can be approached at some point. And if I can just go for a while, my purpose will be successful.
Ever since this thought came to mind, Khaleda waited for the night. When the night fell and the husband was fast asleep, she left the room with some raw meat in a dish. Sundarban is a little far from the house. He started moving slowly towards the forest.
The overwhelming desire to get the amulet made him forget everything. Forgot that she is a woman; It is not safe for him to walk alone late at night. Khaleda is now fearless. Not that he wasn't a little afraid, though. As he went he went to a place where lions live. He went there and kept the meat and said in a loud voice -
O king of the forest! I have brought food for you, eat. No lion responded to Khaleda's call. He repeated the same call several more times. But as it didn't work, he returned home as a failure.
The next night he repeated the same incident again. After spending several days in Ekadhar like this, the lion slowly came out of the cave and started eating meat for fun.
Khaleda is happy now. He thought that if I could lure the lion out of the cave every night by tempting him with meat, then one day I would be able to reach him. So every day he took one step closer to the lion with fear. Even though his chest would heave at the sight of the lion, sometimes he would even rush home because of fear, but he continued to try to approach the lion. In this way, one day the situation was such that the fear of lions was completely removed from his mind.
One night event. Khaleda appeared in front of the lion's den with meat. Sensing his arrival, before the lion came out of its cave, Khaleda placed the pot of meat in front of the lion. Then the lion took one look at the girl and started eating like a loyal animal. Now Khaleda gathered all the courage of her body and went very close to the lion.
Then he began to caress his head. But the lion made no response. This gave more courage to Khaleda. He said, O king of the jungle! I just need a mustache from you. Saying this, he seized one of the whiskers of the lion, trembling with fear and pulled it off. But this time the lion did not react. Subodh remained silent like a boy. For so long, the lion of the forest was completely subdued by Khaleda's care and food. He seems to have forgotten that he is a ferocious animal-the king of the forest.
Khaleda's joy can no longer hold. He collected the lion's whiskers and returned home very quickly. Then spent the rest of the night waiting for dawn.
In the morning he ran to the Dervish. He began to shout from a distance with joy - I got it. Got a lion's mustache. Now make me a talisman according to your word. So that my husband loves me like before. Bound by love and affection. Dervish said, where is the lion's mustache? Let me see.
Khaleda hands the lion's mustache to the dervish. Dervish examines it. He began to shake and look. When he believed that it was indeed the mustache of a living lion, he immediately threw the mustache into a burning hearth and burned it to ashes.
Khaleda was shocked by the situation. He stared for a while at the burning hearth with wide-eyed wonder. Then Sambit got back and said in a loud voice - Hey Dervish Sahib! What did you do? Burned to ashes the fruits of my efforts so far? How much sleep I lost, how much money I spent, how much comfort I was forbidden for this one hair.
And did you throw this hair into the fire and burn it? Saying this, Khaleda looked at the dervish in such a way, as if she had doubts about the sound thoughts and intelligence of the dervish.
But Darvesh Sahib did not pay any attention to all this and asked in a simple voice -
: Well mother! Tell me, how do you make this impossible work possible?
: Will you listen? Want to hear that story? Khaleda said the words shaking with anger.
: Yes, I will listen. Tell the story of your efforts and sacrifices.
Khaleda said, every night after my husband went to sleep, I would quietly get up and risk my life and go to the nearby forest. I used to take food for the lion. In this way, I fed the lion not for one day or two, but for six long months. Every night I took one or two steps towards the lion. One day I went and stood next to the lion. I got the courage to stroke his head. With that I picked up a mustache.
This is how I became victorious in my pursuit. Mr. Dervish! Accepting so much trouble that I collected the mustache, in a moment you burned that mustache and burned it to ashes? Sir! You would never have done it if you knew the amount of labor it took me to collect it. The most important thing is, now how to make my amulet?
The dervish listened to the girl's words. Then he said in a very compassionate voice -
: Really you have worked hard mom.
: I have worked hard. But you ruined all my hard work.
: No, I didn't waste your hard work. I did exactly what I did.
: But are you kidding me?
: No, not even that. There is no need for this mustache.
: But my amulet?
: Your amulet is ready.
: What did you say the amulet is ready?
: Yes, done. That means the purpose I had by making the talisman has been achieved.
: Your words seem mysterious.
: No, there is no mystery here. What I want to say is very clear.
: Explain what you want to say or what you want to convey. Khaleda's voice has become normal by now.
: I want to ask you a question.
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: Well, would you say, the fierce animal of the forest, the lion, is more terrifying, or your husband Shibli is more terrifying?
: My husband is a man. Is there any comparison with the ferocity of lions?
: Then you admit that your husband is by no means a ferocious, barbarous and bigoted beast.
: Yes.
: But you say, if a ferocious wild animal can be tamed by caress and tenderness, what if your husband, who once loved you with all his soul, loved you with all his heart, should for some reason temporarily diminish the degree of that love? Can't he be bound by the chain of love, go as he pleases, serve and care like before? Is it more difficult than bringing the forest animals to the bug? Go, go home at once and treat your husband well.
Understand his mood. Greet your husband with a smile when he comes from outside. Be neat and tidy within the bounds of Shariat. Serve him with all the sweetness of your heart. Be respectful. Don't hurt yourself by doubting him unnecessarily. Remember, it is the wife's indifference and indifference to the husband that often makes the husband dangerous. So take care of him.
Try to give him what he legitimately wants. Don't turn away from him with stubbornness and self-conceit. It will only harm you. Also remember, if you can follow your husband's mind, then your house will become a piece of heaven in this world..
After the dervish's speech was over, Khaleda said, Lord! You have opened the eyes of my heart. To be honest, after the boy was born, I became completely indifferent to my husband. I did not care about his satisfaction.
I used to follow my own will. And that's why it feels like he's slowly drifting away from me. Lord, please pray that I can obey your words, that golden married life will come back again.
: Yes mom, I will definitely pray. God help you. Protect from all evil.
From that day Khaleda became especially focused on her husband's service. He continued as he said. Abstain from words and actions that would displease the husband. Eliminate unnecessary doubts.
Abstained from the day. Eliminate unnecessary doubts. In addition to the usual decoration during the day, before going to bed at night, after getting well-groomed and dressed as a bride, she began to accompany her husband. The result within a few months was that the husband now loved her more than before. Creation is many times more heart and sincerity than before.
Dear readers! The veracity of some parts of the incident may be questioned. This question is not only from your side, but also from my side. That is, such an adventure is almost impossible for a woman. So it is natural to doubt its authenticity.
But the rest of this incident is neither incredible nor impossible. Because if a wife truly strives to serve and please her husband with sincere good will, then the husband will return to the right path. One day his mistake will break. So I say to the mothers and sisters, let's try to please the husband and bring him back, strengthen the bond of love and affection through love and service rather than discipline. Oh God! You give us tawfeek. amen